Do you like these popular kinks?

Do you like these popular kinks?

I have a biased perspective on BDSM, kink, fetish and sex.  My career as a sex worker who is polyamorous and active in the fetish scene means I enjoy a lot of things that most people have never heard of. Still, I think it’s always interesting to see how my likes stack...

LGBT and kink in pop culture

The LGBT and kink communities have a lot of overlap Maybe those of us in the kink and fetish community can use the example of activists in the LGBT community.  After all, LGBT and kink groups have members who readily identify in both (and other) groups. A sissy named...

Shock of seeing who loves kink or fetish

Do you think you’re weird because you like kink or fetish? This post is inspired by comments from a post about kink in pop culture. I’m always interested in the WHY of things — why people think what they think, why people do what they do, etc.  Pop...

BDsm and kink in pop culture

Lots of kink in pop culture Have you ever been watching a movie and go, “WOW, I just spotted a kink or fetish?”  I have. Quinten Tarantino has a foot fetish!  That’s just one example.  Oh sure, sometimes there is an obvious reference like in the movie 50 Shades...

Everyone has a fetish that feels weird

… and some people worry about fetish desires I’m here to tell you that you are not alone as you can hear in this audio about the diversity of sexual desire.  I’ve been sexually adventurous my whole life and doing phone sex, I’ve talked with...