Relationship Between Mistress and the Submissive

I write about what it means to Me to be a Mistress.  Many of you have written about male submission and being a male submissive.  We’ve talked about how it takes strength to be a submissive.  I’ve been very clear that I feel like your submission to Me is a...

BDsm: Destined for male submission to Mistress

submission to BDsm Mistress Olivia? If you’re like most people, you have a general idea of what you want with BDsm.  And, like most people, you know you’ve found what you’ve been looking for WHEN you find it.  BUT — What do you do during the in...

Mistress as Dominant, switch or more with BDsm

What does Mistress enjoy? There are so many terms used in BDsm that it can seem like a foreign country.  In a way it is … we do go to fantasy land and have a wonderful, kinky vacation! Mistress was the same when when I started learning about kink and fetish...

Submissive male: What does it take for submission to Mistress

Submission to Mistress What does a Mistress look for in a submissive male, subby, servant or slave?  The short answer is that it depends on your particular kink or fetish.  It also depends on how you express that erotic desire in conjunction with your submission to...

IM Chat: Emotional landmines with amateur fetish dating

The last post asked the question why pay for sex? I, personally, think one of the primary reasons for phone sex is to avoid all the messy entanglements of real life dating!  When you know you want to get off and know how you want to do it (for example with fetish sex...

IM chat: Question, Pro Domme versus escort

Question about a Pro Domme I get lots of questions about all sorts of things.  Most issues are in the BDsm and sex fetish arena but I’m an Informatrix (new term from a caller of mine) — we can talk about anything your heart or your dick desires.  After...